To my fellow business owners:

Would you like to create a more deeply loving home…while your business thrives?

The MOTH Method is a 12-week coaching intensive for founders and service providers, designed to remove the unconscious emotional obstacles that have been keeping you overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, and irritable at home. 

Along the way you’ll:

  • Regain clear focus and mental calm by eradicating overwhelm

  • Discover unparalleled warmth and closeness in your relationships

  • Feel lighter, more energized, and grounded in your deepest values

Over the next twelve weeks we’ll remove the three biggest obstacles keeping you from higher performance and deeper presence. 

One of the biggest problems is the risk of overwhelm from having so much on your plate. The Presence Protocol will help you release the pressure to perform and clear your plate with confidence so that you have more room to breathe. This involves defining your roles and goals, redefining what’s “good enough,” and eliminating distractions by finding your lead domino - the one thing that makes everything else work better.

You’ll notice this working within the first week as the mental noise gets quiet and you bring clearheaded and wholehearted focus to what’s most important.

The next big problem is that you’ve disconnected from your feelings and values. We’ll reestablish that connection using the Emotional Mastery Method. You’ll learn how to distinguish between facts, feelings, and framing thoughts. Then you’ll release tension and explore embodied emotional experience, using this to align with your deepest values.

This will offload the heavy emotional weight you’ve been carrying and give you an everyday sense of lightness, along with greater energy and groundedness. 

The third big problem is conflict and miscommunication that shows up in your relationships. You’ll use The Consensus Code to communicate for connection. This lets you respect your side and theirs, reconcile and repair when things break down, and reorient toward a shared vision for the relationship that brings forth the best of both of you. 

After just one conversation your relationships will be warmer, closer, and more honest, and as the months go by you’ll accrue more and more “relational capital” to deploy toward your mutual goals. 

All of this is included in The MOTH Method, and you’ll master it in just 12 weeks. 

You’ll learn the core skills through guided weekly workshops (combining content and skill-building), with ongoing support in a community group and access to a “daily debrief and development” WhatsApp thread, giving you rapid responses to challenges as they arise.

As these different pieces come together you’ll find that your home becomes more deeply loving than ever before…far beyond anything you experienced when you were growing up. And when you’re carrying less emotional weight, you can’t help but unlock even more professional success, making a greater contribution. 

Past clients have proven the approach:

  • Rafe brought his relationship back from the brink of divorce and helped his kids feel safe at home again, saying “If most people had any idea of the kind of depth of intimacy and connection I now have with my wife, they would be jumping at the opportunity to work with Chandler.”

  • Haziq restored the connection in his marriage while building a new multi-six figure business, saying “I’m happy to tell you that it worked out way better than I expected…there's been a new level of openness and honesty in our relationship like never before, beyond what I could ever imagine married life could be.”

  • Andy cut through the conflict in his home and said “Thank you so much! The combination of love, confidence, and honesty was such a touching moment. I don’t think we’ve shared an instance where we were this close in a long time. Thank you for helping us achieve that.”

I look forward to seeing what The MOTH Method will do in your life.

You’re a great fit for this if: 

  • You’re an established service provider committed to excellence in your craft,

  • You’re devoted to your family and want to be a better example for your kids,

  • You’ve already invested in various coaching or therapeutic modalities and want more depth,

  • You know that real life is offline and take part in your in-person community,

  • You’re a big thinker with big feelings, ambitious while still caring deeply for others,

  • You had a difficult early life, which still influences your present relationships,

  • You want to develop your relationship with God.

If that sounds like you, then you’re in the right place. 

In which case the investment is simple. 

You can get started for just $500 for the first week, followed by a weekly payment of $500 through the duration of the program. Or you can save $1,000 with a single, upfront payment of 5k.

That’s a small price to pay to turn your home into a sanctuary.

And it’s a fraction of what the ongoing stress at home and in your business costs. 

If you agree, then get started with The MOTH Method by saying “I’m in” either:

  • By messenger if we’re connected that way, or

  • By emailing me at chandler (at) chandlerstevens (dot) com with MOTH in the subject